User Profile

I can be described, but cannot be defined. After spending a lifetime trying to fit into everyone else's neat little boxes, I have decided to just do what I do, and let eveyone else worry about finding that "definitive label" for me. Little do they know that it doesn't exist.

So....here's a little bit of info that along with my interests might give you a small idea of the things that stimulate my mind and heart.

This profile, along with everything else in my life, is a work in progress.


I am a reader, and have been since I was very young. Forget gold, books are my "dragon's hoard." A few favorites include...

BDSM books: SM 101, Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns, Come Hither, The Loving Dominant, Shibari You Can Use, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage.

Other books: The Prophet, The Little Prince, The Velveteen Rabbit, Bambi, The Fur Person, Illusions, The Giver, The Awakening, The Age of Innocence, Flowers for Algernon, The Grapes of Wrath, To Kill a Mockingbird, Animal Farm, the Jungle Books, Middlesex, the Incarnations of Immortality series, the Camulod Chronicles, the Horatio Hornblower novels, the Aubrey/Maturin series, the Vampire Chronicles.

Authors: Rumi, Kahlil Gibran, Tony Hillerman, Anais Nin, Piers Anthony, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Elizabeth Moon, Robert Heinlein, Jack Whyte, Anne Rice, Judy Grahn, Pat Parker, Amy Lowell, Rudyard Kipling, C.S. Forester.


I also have a very eclectic taste in music and movies.

Artists: Dropkick Murphys, Depeche Mode, Nine Inch Nails, Korn, Linkin Park, Godsmack, System of a Down, Tool, Disturbed, Rob Zombie, The Cure, Flogging Molly, Evanescence, Dave Matthews, Damien Rice, Ben Harper, Patty Griffin, Sarah McLachlan, Melissa Etheridge, Nina Simone, Shawn Mullins, Violent Femmes, U2, The Police, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, The Rolling Stones, The Eagles, Madonna, Sinead O'Connor, Alabama, Willie Nelson, Hank Williams Jr., Dixie Chicks, Garth Brooks.

Composers: Chopin, Stravinsky, Bach, Tchaikovsky, Mozart, Beethovin.

Albums/works: The Wall - Pink Floyd, The Lion and The Cobra - Sinead O'Connor, Synchronicity - The Police, Violent Femmes - The Violent Femmes, Violator and Personal Jesus - Depeche Mode, Pretty Hate Machine - NIN, Mass - Bernstein, Petrushka and Rite of Spring - Stravinsky.

Action movies: Seven Samurai, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, House of Flying Daggers, Kung Fu Hustle, Hero, Kill Bill 1 and 2, The Matrix Trilogy, The 300.

Drama/other movies: Pulp Fiction, The Godfather I and II, The Age of Innocence, Elizabeth (1998), Last of the Mohicans, Gladiator, Braveheart, We Were Soldiers, Gardens of Stone, Bound, The Hunger, The Addiction, The Believer, City of Angels, What Dreams May Come, Stigmata, The Order (2003), Jesus Christ Superstar.

Comedy: Office Space, Little Miss Sunshine, The Blues Brothers, O Brother Where Art Thou, The 40 Year Old Virgin, Slap Shot.

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